Honestly am I wrong for not liking my boyfriends ex just because am I ? I don’t act on it I’m just not comfortable with them texting period. I feel like she thinks she has a right to talk to him cause she had him first and I know that makes him sound like and object to be owned but really she doesn’t neither do I but if either of us did it would be me right? The one he says he wants to marry? I have good reason to believe that she thinks that way considering the facebook message that she needed with “and it might be inappropriate but I think I have the right to say I love you” am I overreacting ?? Please if I am tell me. So today I called him after work and he fills me in on his day and says oh yea I talked to _________ she said she would be back this summer and I could borrow her book. So I ordered him the book so he wouldn’t have to borrow it from her. Is that selfish?